What is SubSpace

What is Subspace have you ever wondered? We keep hearing those terms over and over again. 

Let me Explain!

Talking about BDSM and getting into a deeper connection, imagine satiating that desire on a sexual level because you truly are dropping into something that I want to take into a conversation.

Is this distinction between something called a dome space and subspace?

As Dom you’re dropping into that DOM space.

So what is DOM space?

Dom space is when the FemDom taps into her sadistic self. And when I was speaking about the Dominatrix archetypes earlier, the sadist lives inside of a seductress.

So it’s the erotic part of the dominatrix. It’s Her sexuality

Here is where she gets turned on when dominates.

even from a simple gesture when the sub gets down on his knees and looks up at her adoring.

She just gets this burst of Domspace energy.

just because of that energy coming towards the sub. just receiving it, taking it in, it’s just beautiful

it feels like neurochemicals are being fired off.

Feel-good chemicals are being produced on both sides.

When I’m doing a scene like a corporal scene, flogging, or something similar. I get very much in the zone. Those hormones get fired off and I feel physically high.

There is a natural high of being in DOMspace.

When you feel submissive, you go into your subspace

Suddenly you are in a different State of mind you’re in a more focused state of alpha brain waves patterns. for both the sub and the Dom.

you’re focused, you’re in the moment, you’re together, you’re very much connected.

But subspace isn’t always possible. It all depends on the Dom, if the Dom can put the sub into subspace, It’s all up to her, if she can do it.

A skilled dom can put a sub in a subspace in the first minute of the scene.

I want to clarify that it’s not always possible for the sub to go into subspace because if the Dom is playing on a light level, if she’s like appearing that she’s having fun and she’s not really ordering you around and if she’s being too casual with you like it’s not going to work, it’s not going to put you into subspace.

It takes the DOm and her energy to get the submissive into subspace

So the Dom brings it out of you and then when the submissive energy comes out of the sub it makes the Dom get into Dom space

It’s this reciprocal feedback of information transcended into energy.

there’s the Dom providing instruction which provides some experience for sub,

sub responds and then you’re getting that feedback which drops you deeper into your DOM space with them dropping deeper into their subspace

it’s give, it’s receive, it’s push, it’s pull.

It can be felt as a wave of energy from the skull going towards the feet going down.

When a Dom commands a sub in the right way the messages is registered physiologically, that is that received energy, feeling it go towards the ground, it is different.

I mentioned the word High, which we’re referring to as a high in other meanings.

It transcends in altered states of consciousness without any Altering that is being done by an outside substance.

The feeling is similar with the meditative state.

You can reach those brain wave patterns when you meditate.

in those frequencies, certain chemicals are released in the brain

I would say, everything is happening neurobiological because, there are neurotransmitters, and neuromodulators that are being released, dopamine, endorphins, norepinephrine, and serotonin.

All of these are putting us into what is referred to as a flow state, which induces that transient hypofrontality where the prefrontal cortex part of the brain that is associates with the world around us and our chores and our dishes and the other things that we need to do as a part of our executive functioning.

Those are similar to a volume knob or adjusting the music in a car.

All that begins to turn down and we start to have the lived experience of being more than our physical body.

I imagine there’s almost this dissolving process of our individual egos and becomes this wave of energy that is now flowing back and forth in this altered state.

When the dissolving of egos is happening you become a better person and a better sub or dom.