What are the rules of a submissive

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What are the rules of the submissive and their importance?

What are the rules of a submissive according to an ownership contract,and rules in a BDSM session?

Ownership contact is a contract that bonds a d/d relationship with a dom and a sub.

Rules of a Submissive are important to learn. There are some duties in general terms that all submissives must know about, besides rules and duties, there are also protocols. Those protocols are mainly set up by each Dominatrix according to each other needs.

DUTIES OF SERVITUDE

It is the duty of slave to please Mistress.

Personal duties will include the physical/emotional/financial needs of the Mistress, amusement, sexual toy/plaything, physical comfort, and waiting on the Mistress as desired and needed.

Slaves must feel grateful for the attention given and pay tribute to Mistress. A payment or gift that shows slaves’ appreciation. Payment amounts are discussed together and reach a common agreement

Slave is required to obey all commands given by Mistress within the constraints of this document.

slave agrees to show an attitude of respect at all times.

Disrespect is a serious offense and will not be taken lightly.

Respect includes manner of speech, promptness, proper answers, obedience, loyalty, and honesty

Respect and obedience are the two most important aspects of attitude. Failure will result in punishment.

slave shall address the Mistress as “Mistress” at all times without fail.

slave shall pay full attention to Mistress when spoken to.

slave will sit, stand, walk, kneel and lay where,when and how Mistress desires.

Training is the prerogative of Mistress and decision alone, as are the type, style, and pace.

The attention of slave is to be focused on Mistress unless She commands otherwise.

Rules of Discipline

  • Slave will not accept to be owned by anyone but Mistress.
  •  Every attempt will be brought to the attention of Mistress as quickly as possible.
  • In this area, slaves can report any attempts to the Mistress Upon a strict surveillance Mistress can express permission to allow certain plays, sessions, training or contacts with other mistresses or Masters in exchange of punishment or certaintribute or orders.
  • The method and type of discipline is the sole responsibility of the mistress.
  • The mistress will use her good judgment and fairness in deciding the form of discipline, taking the slave`s limitations into consideration.
  • Slave will keep an accurate record of both the act that created the need for discipline and the punishment that was earned.
  • When physical discipline is applied (including hands, flogger, crop, etc.) slave will count out loud the number of strokes he is to receive and express his thanks to Mistress for her attention.
  • If the slave loses track of the count, the count will begin from the start.
  • Once the discipline has been completed, the slave will be forgiven and the cause forgotten.
  • All discipline will be fair and not without cause.
  • If a slave has displeased Mistress as a result of Mistress not being clear on her rules and/or instructions, then no discipline is justified or will be given.

Availability


 -the slave will be unconditionally available to Mistress during agreed-upon arrangements.

 -slave agrees that his body belongs to Mistress, to be used as She sees fit within the guidelines defined herein.

 -slave agrees to please Mistress to the best of his ability.

-slave agrees that Mistress possesses the right to determine whether others can use his body and what they may put it to.

 -Mistress will discuss all such instances in advance with the slave, to be certain that such play with others will not violate any established limits.

 

Safe Words in Sessions

 

The slave is allowed safewords in all activities when necessary and trusts implicitly in Mistress to respect the use of said safewords.
If a condition arises in which the slave needs to use a safeword, Mistress will assess the situation and determine an appropriate course of action.
Safe words for Caution: YELLOW,
Safe words for
Stop: RED
Once a slave has recovered, the issues causing the use of the safeword will be discussed and a mutual arrangement for the future will be agreed upon.
slave agrees to feel pain, which is part of the training process, and the training cannot be done without it.

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